5 Lessons I learnt from Failing. And how they made me unstoppable.

Failure isn't the opposite of success. NO.  it's part of success.

A lot of people fear failure. But it's one of the most powerful teachers life has given us.

I can recall back then when I was in primary school. I never liked mathematics as a subject. I hated even the sight of it, talk more of learning it. most of us had this same issue growing up.  

Fast forward to when my mum had to enroll me in an extra class. Yes, it was that bad. I angrily went, and reluctantly learnt. even in class activities, I still scored the lowest. already, I   knew my place, so I didn't even bother.  

One day, when the teacher was tired of my scores, he called me to his office, gave me a seat, and said; ''Mathematics is the simplest subject. I felt he was trying to make me like mathematics. but he kept insisting. so I thought to myself, if he is saying this, then I needed to see it myself. 

Here are 5 lessons I learned from failure.

1. Failure doesn't mean you're finished.

I mixed this up while growing. I saw failure as a sign that I was incapable.  This school of thought worsens things for me even more. so, each time I try something new and don't succeed, I tend to feel bad and refuse to attempt again.

Failure is like hitting the gym for body fitness and building.  it builds your mind, endurance, creativity, and aids decision making.

Failure is not the end of the road. it's the road itself. Running away from it is like running away from progress.

 The beauty of a car is not in the garage, but on the highway. so as  Man is to challenges.

2. Consistency breeds clarity.

Running away from challenges is equivalent to complaining and crying when faced with challenges.

both are identical twins.

 The moment you decide to face it, you will discover new things you never thought could be.

Consistency weakens resistance. Stop calling God on things you can handle. 

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 Keep hanging on there, you're learning and it's getting clearer.

3. Pain produces Growth.

 To get the juice out of an orange, you will have to squeeze it.

The squeeze is trying to bring the best out of you.  

There is some potential in you that is tied to a push from challenges. Approach it will a clear mind.

Your growth is subject to push. The pain is not out to destroy you, but to refine you. 

keep growing.

4. Seek help when necessary

I remembered some years ago when I entered a town newly for a project, I was in a vehicle and I decided to engage in a conversation with the person sitting next to me(Responsible person). I asked him about the town, and he gave me some nice remarks. Fast forward to when I arrived at the venue of what brought me, and I coincidentally met him again. we both smiled, and he asked me what I was doing there. I told him I came for a project, which I was hoping to get signed into starting. he told me his father was the person in charge and that he would talk to his dad for him to consider me. 

we had like over a hundred candidates for that contract,  and to my greatest surprise, I got the contract on which I wasn't even qualified.

lesson learned is: No man is an island. we need each other to actually make progress. This is not a one-sided point, but both parties need each other to make it. collaboration is the new normal.

 One of the major problems facing some of us is the ability to master the art of NETWORKING.  

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5. People will always doubt you.

The moment you start seeking human validation from man, that's the moment you will miss the track.

Man,  and School, can give you suggestions of what they think you are. 

At first, people will always doubt your capacity. Its not a moment where you will feel bad, but an avenue to grow even more. People will always doubt your skills  and potential. its normal. but what is not normal is when you agree to their opinion about you.

This doubt is an avenue to showcase what you have for yourself.

Don't attach emotions to this. 

These 5 Lessons are a Roadmap for surmounting challenges and still struggles.

 

see you at the top

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logicPilot